The Art of Asking for Referrals

Last week I received an email inquiry from a woman named Donna. She told me she was having miserable luck getting referrals from her clients and ask, “What am I doing wrong?”

After a few email exchanges to determine how she was approaching clients, I was a bit stunned to learn the way Donna was going about it. In a nutshell, she would send her clients thank you notes and include about a dozen of her business cards, asking them to hand them out to others who might need her services.

Yikes!

Now, let me first say that the thank you note is a great idea. But the sincerity of appreciation is kind of kicked to the curb by asking the client for something in return. At the very minimum, when asking for referrals keep the same client-benefit perspective in mind that you had when you first attracted the client to you.

Donna is a seamstress, so here are just three things she might do differently:

1.  Use “give to get” enticements.

Instead of enclosing business cards, Donna could enclose a few small postcards that offer a 20% discount on services – for BOTH the referrer (your client) and the referral (your potential client).

The message she would be sending would say, “thank you” in a beneficial way by giving something to get something: the offer benefits your client, and it allows that client to pass on a benefit to someone else.

2. Partner with a complementary business.

Donna’s business would share clientele with (without being a direct competitor of) a nearby dry cleaning service. The two businesses could simply agree to place business cards at each others’ place of business. Better yet, they could each print up discount coupons for customers to take.

3. Propose a direct mail joint venture with a complementary business.

Donna could seek out one or more complementary businesses (like the dry cleaner) to propose sharing the costs of a promotional mailing. Each business contributes an equal number of contact addresses and they share the printing and mailing costs.

Asking for referrals doesn’t have to be elaborate and it doesn’t have to be difficult but it does have to be well thought out. Think through the process and place yourself in the other person’s chair. What would entice YOU to pass along a referral? Then act and react so that it becomes effortless and profitable.

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